They say only losers do that. They would call me a loner. Guess what? I’ve been doing this for years and i’m pretty excited about what i’m doing!
It’s not because i’m a single lady–yeah, alright i’m single but that doesn’t even matter because i had a few guys propose me before and i ignored them all, that pretty much means i’m not a loner, ah okay come back to the topic–But i just like to do it myself. I have a couple of friends who like to ask me to join them for movie and sometimes i ignore them because i don’t really feel comfortable about it. Why? I don’t know. I kinda hate when i have to argue with people about what movie we should watch. Usually they pick wrong movie, i mean it’s their favorite genre but that’s not mine. At the end, i became disappointed.
And going to movie by yourself means you can sit wherever you want. Sometimes i even put my foot on the chair right in front of me if nobody sit there–That’s illegal, by the way. Don’t do it if somebody sit there. Don’t ever. I can buy large popcorn without being annoyed about somebody else craving for my food.
You can get both arm rest too, without worry about your date or your friend who is absolutely not sitting right next to you right now. You can pick somewhere, a chair next to another empty chair to put your bag on or your popcorn. I often do that, by the way. If i’m gonna cry or laugh way too hard, i often feel bad about what other will say. But now, nobody’s here to commenting about me.
Sometimes i feel like the world is mine and nobody’s here to bother. I actually like to travel and go shopping alone too. There’s alot of things to do by yourself. And that doesn’t mean you’re a loner. I can pretty much get focus of what i’m doing–watching, shopping, listening to music while attending concert–because nobody’s there to talk to me or talking all way through the Mall. I’m kinda like it.
You know, eating your food alone without worrying, choosing your favorite movie and enjoy what you’re doing more, is likely not a word for a ‘Loser’, even if you’re a loner 😉
PS. Pssst! I first got an idea to write this after watching BuzzFeed’s video. Yeah, themselves again! But all i wrote is all i did, so, yeah, i’m pretty fantastic because i could be that similar to their thought.